Before slept, I spoke to him...
Me: Jayden, next time you cannot go wander around alone okay? You must hold hand. If not then some uncle or aunty take you away, then no more mami and dadi edi. You will have new mami and dadi.No thomas. No titi. And then they cut your hands, cut your legs, cut your ears...
Jayden:No.. No!Don't want new mami and dadi! Don't cut hand! I hold hand, Mami hold hand. Mami fren you...(me)
Me: So you must remember to always stay with mami and dadi. Must hold hand. Cannot let go okay?
Me: If some uncle come and ask you "come come boy... let's go playground" What must you say?
Me: AH!? No. Cannot follow that uncle. Later he cut your hand and leg how?
Jayden: NO! don't cut hand!
Me: So don't follow that uncle ok? He is a stranger.
Jayden: No follow stringer...
Me: Is boh boh stranger?
Me: is Boh leh stranger?
Me: If the uncle no name wan leh?
Me: STRANGER....So if the uncle say "come boy come, let's go playground" What must you say?
Jayden: No don't want playground. I want go to swimming pool.
Me: *slap forehead* NO.... You cannot follow anyone to anywhere. Not to playground. Not to swimming pool. You cannot go with stranger and you don't talk to stranger remember? So what must you say?
Jayden: Don't want. No talk to stranger.
Me: Goood... So if there's this aunty come and bring you ice cream and say "come, i give you ice cream. What must you say?
Jayden: OK! Strawberry ice cream?
Me: *slap forehead* NO.......the aunty give you ice cream, if you take the ice cream, then she will bring you home and cut your hands and legs.
Jayden: NOOOOO Don't want cut hand
Me: then what must you say?
Jayden: *sad* don't want strawberry ice cream..
Jayden: How about chocolate ice cream?
Me: NOOOO any ice cream also cannot take ok?
Me: so if the aunty bring you triple scoop ice cream leh? Got strawberry, chocolate and vanilla ic cream, you follow her or not?
Jayden: no.... don't want.
Me: Okay. If the aunty say give you ice cream,you just tell her NO. Mami will buy you BIG BIG BIGGG scoop of yummy ice cream ok?
Jayden: (if) aunty Dorothy bring ice cream? (next door neighbour)
Me: ai...... if aunty Dorothy brings you ice cream and IF mami is around you can have it okay? You need to ask mami before you take anything from anyone. Do you understand?
Wah can vomit blood teaching this dude to understand the danger of talking and following stranger. But what to do? Gotto keep reminding him until he undertstand it. Guess this is what I'm gonna do during this holiday. So how did you teach your kid? Care to share?
and ......Merry Kissmass everyone!