Thursday, October 25, 2007

One Happy Family

Thanks for all your comments, msn, and also email. Thank you.

Last night, I hid his pacifier underneath my pillow. And while he was rolling around on our bed, I pulled his hand and place it underneath the pillow. He happily smile and pulled the pacifier out and straight away did his "thing" And he slept the whole night through. Dadi and Mami too had a good night sleep. We're one happy family :)


Jayden says: Mami, you gimme my chutchut and I promise you I'll be a good boy k?

Learnt my lesson through this project. I was too eager to stop him from sucking his pacifier. I remembered my own promise to myself when he was hospitalized last time, "as long as he is healthy, and it's not harmful to himself just let him do it or have it" but there must be a limit. I don't want my son to be a spoil brat. But my uncle calls him that just because he has his own blog which was maintained by me. So I'm Spoil Mami? Hmmmmm

25 comments:

  1. Just take your time. Can give the project chut chut less a try at some other time.

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  2. I agree with your theory.. and only choose my battles wisely.. ;)

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  3. not spoil lar...Mummy Loves Jayden a lot.....

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  4. Something was wrong either with my connection or yours as I could not leave any comments on your blog yesterday.

    Anyway, pleased to hear all is well and at the end of the day, do not succumbed to pressure but do what you feel comfortable deep within you.

    No two children are the same, no two sets of family are the same. Each to their own.

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  5. Hi,Sasha like wat Chanel said u din spoil Jayden but u love him. Cheer up my friend!

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  6. If can't wean off now, probably wait for a few more months when he's a little older.

    I remember weaning ALycia off her chut chut when she was 2.5 yrs old. She had some probs with her speech and we brought her to the speech therapist. We were advised by the speech therapist to wean her off the pacifier and it only took us 3-4 days to wean her off.

    True enough, 1 week after being weaned off her pacifier, she could pronounce the words that she had difficulty in when she was addicted to her pacifier.

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  7. etceteramommy6:55 PM

    Sasha, you're the only one who knows what's best for Jayden now. So follow your heart. I think when you see his smile when he grabbed the chut chut, u know you're doing the right thing....

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  8. yay! one big happy family! everyone can sleep well!!! Good!

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  9. Sometimes, when the child is ready, he will be ready. So, not to worry too much about it or get too bothered with what others say. I guess as a mum, you are the best judge on when your child is ready for the next milestone.

    So meanwhile, let all enjoy the chut-chut days.

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  10. not spoilt mommi lah. dun care wat other ppl say lah. which parents don pamper their kids wan rite??? even though my parents used to scole me for the way i'm teaching my doter, i also dun care, as long i know wat i doing and it is for a good thing indeed. relax...............

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  11. Good lor.. now everyone's happy. What's J eating? His mouth all red one?

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  12. Sleeeep! Oh, I so envy you now. :P

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  13. hmm that's y i don't plan to take away kylie's comfort bolster...

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  14. when jayden is old enough to read his own blog, he will appreciate mami...

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  15. Oscar's Mommy8:41 AM

    slow slow la... sooner or later, lil j will refuse the chut chut liow.

    jayden, aunty sayang ok... *hugz*

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  16. haha, like magic show for him like that pulak...
    but pst... my teeth nice boh?? I took chutchut until i was 7 years old... :D

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  17. yeah yeah!! So happy for u, Sasha! Take your time, sooner or later, Jayden will throw away his chut chut happily. Don't put too much pressure on yourself! You are in fact a GOOD mom!

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  18. Good good..everyone happy happy..Jayden happy to get the chut chut again..daddy & mummy got good night sleep. Happy ending..yuhoo!

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  19. I guess it is not easy. Maybe have to do it slowly rather than drastically take it away from them.

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  20. E.body happy..

    kung xi kung xi kung xi ni..

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  21. Glad to hear you guys are sleeping better. Don't worry about itlah. He'll wean off when the time is right. And if he's spoilt because he has a blog, Irfan must be spoilt too leh??

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  22. as long you are happy it is most important. that day i tell qiqi again to go school...till she walk to her father and cry...so sad to see her like that. every mummy friends see her also ask her y din go school, must go schoo, she so sad...sigh....how ah?

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  23. I'm in the same shoe as you... I hope to wean en en asap but sometimes it's not in our control becoz the little one has their own thinking. Sometimes, she will pull out and throw away even you offer chut chut for her but sometimes she will cry like mad searching for her chut chut.
    Guess we got to be more patient and really mustn't listen to others saying.

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  24. don't feel bad lah...take your time. i think sometimes we expect too much of our kids....we're not perfect so we shouldn't expect our kids to be as well....

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  25. Nice to hear everyone happy. That's the important thing. JD is always a good boy anyway.. so no sweat there. You've done good job all this while too.

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