Wednesday, January 24, 2007

Why am i closer to bloggers frens than to my friends

So you see, to some ppl, I'm still considered young. Being at 27 this year, many of my friends are still searching for the right one, searching for more "fun" in the clubs and some still searching for don't know what. So to them, I'm like "aunty" and only talks about "aunty" things. They seldom ask me out anymore, cos the normal outings will be at clubs...or dinner at night in the weekday?? And weekend, when I'm ready..they're half dead because "hang over" from the clubs last night. And when we sit together they will talk about liquor la...ciggs la...go where to club la...go here holiday la...and they ask me "so what's new with you"...what am i supposed to answer leh? So i guess to them, they "pity" me cos getting all tied up with family and of course my Jayden. Yeah yeah..pity me but when they're "lonely" the msn msgs comes in.. "i can see that you're happy with your baby and family, are you happy?" And i will say "Of Course!"

And many of them do not understand why i love to blog. In my blablabla i can tell what i wanna tell. If you don't like what I write, they can choose not to read and i don't get to see thier expression. And i found so many new friends that speaks the same language. Be it, motherly, funny, serious, humsup or whatever, i found them. To "some" ppl it's just a waste of time especially when I'm updating about my son..my sakit-tary says "Alah Sasha nie..asyik asyik dengan Joyden dia.. Hair Hair ambik gambar...hair hari tulis apa Joyden buat". Yeah Joyden...sick to hear what they call my son right. Everytime they say my son's name wrongly i felt like throwing my super sharp heels right at the eyeballs. Haha at least i have a son to write about...


So you see...why am i closer to my blogger friends than to my friends...you have my answer.


Eh sorry la...abit sick now. Waiting for 2pm to see panel doctor. After dat wanna go home and sleep liao. Damn dizzy since morning. Oh yah..when I'm sick and tired and sian..i look at this and it cheered me up ..




i wanna go home...waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

35 comments:

  1. i kannot bewif that u're younger than me ! *pengsan*

    and i learned a new word, from now on, i'll refer my fo-pess-syen as sakit-tali instead of sexytali or what the england referred, SECRETARY

    Joyden Joyden.. it rhymes with Ryoden Ryoden.. Joy.. Orange.. Joy Enak ! *soli!*

    ReplyDelete
  2. sick the better balik rumah and rest more... not write :P
    speedy recovery!

    ReplyDelete
  3. aiks...what to do? they don't hv chewren..so they won't understand your life... don't worry la... when they become mummies...they'll get it!
    HEE HE!

    hope u get well fast!

    plus...DKSH mamypoko sale CHEAP! GO BUY!

    ReplyDelete
  4. sick also can blog & bla so much..only u so terror la...

    wah socks smell so good ah...j0yden! ahahaha

    ReplyDelete
  5. Aiyoh I feel for you.. I oso got dumped by my frens long time ago (not tt I'm young) but some of them still party like mad at this age. Actually vice versa la.. I oso sien to ask them abt their life knowing it goes no further than just clubbing, partying, karaoke, kow chai, kow lui.. yadda yadda yadda... You have us ma...Speedy recovery and keep us posted of Jayden's development. V all love to hear (erm read) about it. :)

    ReplyDelete
  6. Ok..today you go home and rest. Tomolo you write Jayden mia stori, wokeh?

    ReplyDelete
  7. I don't pity you, I envy you leh... but I'm only 22! Hehe *shy* machiam 'han kar' like that!

    ReplyDelete
  8. Aiyoh, how come 'kam ngam' wan...i oso sick la...dizzy, running nose and ear block too....vely 'san fu' la! i oso wanna go home! *sob, sob*

    ReplyDelete
  9. Haha. Well, I'm the opposite of you. At 40, all my frens talk about their teenage children, so I find my blogger frens like you to talk about babies loh. (This is the price that those ppl who were busy partying at age 27 and notchet settle down have to pay.) You see last time, I party, party until 35 oni kahwin so now no more kawan loh.

    ReplyDelete
  10. so young only...me jeles leh..but then hor, my circle of frens oso should be like me with kids n all..but then i still think i've become closer to blogger frens leow! kakakaka...

    ReplyDelete
  11. I think it is a widely misunderstood perception that we who turns into mummy are "aunty", "boring" and "that all we talk about is diapers and milkpowder." I hate it when such comments are passed...hence I can understand your sentiments especially for your age where you are still surrounded by many who has yet to have this priceless motherhood experience.

    ReplyDelete
  12. Haha! I feel the same way too. But my good friends are Irfan's godmas (although 3 of them are in 3 different countries now!), and I don't think I've been keeping in touch with my party friends. Haha! Sometimes I feel like a grandma or something, but at least I know that I have Irfan and Irwan. =) And a lot of my other "friends" are still "searching". Know what I mean? So, you just chill and hand around with us, your blogger friends and get well soon so that you can blog more. Hehe. You crack me up, girl!

    ReplyDelete
  13. Don't worry lah. Your friends will soon kahwin also mah. Then confirm they will click with you again. :) Oh yea, GET WELL SOON and TAKE CARE!:)

    ReplyDelete
  14. I think b'cos your blogger friends are parents so the wave length is more similar..

    It's tough when you talk about diaper and they talk about liquer, and when you talk about sales for baby clothes and they talk about clubs..

    :P

    Anyway.. get well soon.

    ReplyDelete
  15. haha, i think as u say, we all talk same language... same experience... my fwen ask me that too... some even say, look at u, all tied up, i wanna do more before i reach that point...
    *bleh* PPFFTTT! I'm happy, so wat u complaining on my part for, RIGHT?

    they go gaga over ladied nite and foam party, we pulak, warehouse sales... WAHAHA

    ReplyDelete
  16. Your frens should be happy for you. If they are not, then they are just jeles! Jayden so cute...of course can talk about him all day :)

    ReplyDelete
  17. well i guess life changes as we go...didn't know u are younger than me lehhh hahaha...

    ReplyDelete
  18. Hope you feel better now sasha girl, dun worry lah we all go thru same thing wan, one time my single fren after cambing to my house see all "mummy" magazines, commented that my life is so boring, she buy cosmo magazine I but "Mothering Times", she buy sexy swimming costume I go look for chewren clothing.

    ReplyDelete
  19. Eh, Jayden can stand very well! Sakit, go home tidur..:)

    ReplyDelete
  20. Hope you are well now.

    I have the same reason for being so hooked to blogs. Talking about being aunty ar, there was one time when I visited my friend and she was quiet the whole time while I was busy talking to her mother about baby stuff.

    ReplyDelete
  21. Hehe..I am oso the one who got married the earliest and got baby earliest. My friends all are more interested to know what going on in my life and also what's going on when I am away fr Kuching for so long. Clubbing me oso lost track liau but once in awhile still go with hubby lor. But nowadays no mood liau. Always wanna go back early.Hehe...Guess I am getting old and always worried about Keith at home while clubbing.Take carea and rest more..

    ReplyDelete
  22. Can I call u aunty muimui? LOL... eh u said u got many friends still looking for right one? Intro some to me lah :P kidding la.

    To me, I friend with everyone no matter from workplace, real life or bloggers.

    ReplyDelete
  23. Pub? disco? apa tu? hahahah... I think they are just jealoused lah but deep down inside wanna get married and have kids also hehehehe

    ReplyDelete
  24. Same here, those single frens of mine don't understand why I quit job and be a SAHM, they pity me not having a good career like them now. But what the heck? You happy, me happy, we bloggers are happy!

    ReplyDelete
  25. Dun worry abt those partying friends. They will come to their senses one day. Hahahahahha. When it's their turn next time, they will come to you for advice.

    The little one is so cute in the photos. He lets you put a cap on his head. Mine refused everything eventhough it's a small hairclip *roll eyes*. Get well soon!

    ReplyDelete
  26. Do you wonder if one day there is no more internet?

    ReplyDelete
  27. Same here - most of them at my office are still single, so quite malu la to go on an on about my girls as they might get fed up!

    But now a few of them are pregnant (married ones la) and they keep asking me for tips. hehe

    So one full cycle already.

    ReplyDelete
  28. I think ah if no internet now, i also no more friends liao!

    Get well soon ya, dun spread the virus to Jayden hor!

    ReplyDelete
  29. Yeah yeah yeah..agreeee! I really don't know what i can do if there's no internet one day.

    ReplyDelete
  30. Peek-A-Boo. Just passing through to let you know that you've just been tagged!

    ReplyDelete
  31. I lagi worse, only got CEO as fren..heh heh...Get well soon!

    ReplyDelete
  32. Haiya, why are u worried? U have US around u mar. I too cannot do without my bloggers and chatters too. I can talk with my bloggers eventhough I don't really know them. So nice to have some really understanding blogger frens.

    I'm so happy dat I, Ah Poh oredi still can join in the fun with u youngsters in the blogsphere. *Yeah*

    ReplyDelete
  33. Wahlau...you are young! I'm 32 oredi lor. Joyden??? ROTFLMAO - join the club coz mine was called Lokas before too he he but got no super sharp heels, only aunty shoes!!!

    Drink hot milk and go sleep lah...

    ReplyDelete
  34. Hello, your son is very cute!
    I have similar feeling after I was married. Somtimes hard to talk to my friends anymore coz most of them are single and lead a different life.

    p/s: saw and link in FH's blog and decided to check it out. :) Will definalte come back again.

    ReplyDelete
  35. yes.. agree wif u.. tat's y i like to blog too :) blog on everything tat happen to me.. sometimes my hubby wil say wat's the purpose i blog and i wil answer "no lar.. blog for fun. atleast i dun hv to face so many ppl tat dun like me.. if u dun like to read my blog, then pigi lar" i dun care much oso :)

    ur baby, J-A-Y-D-E-N is CUTE.. so i get ur baby's name correctly ar.. dun throw sharp sharp things to me ok??

    ReplyDelete