Thursday, December 07, 2006

Mr.Chan Away Day 1

So Mr Chan is away for Biz in Hong Kong. I hope he is not hugging some PiaoMeissss there while i'm struggling like mad here. Everytime he is away, Jayden will fall sick. I don't know why it's always like that! Arghhh! And always...while he is away, Jayden will learn new things or do something special. Luckily I didn't let him take my camera with him otherwise I won't be able to snap it and show it to him later.

Anyway, I rushed home and managed to reach home early. Bath and washed my hair and went to fetch Jayden from nanny's place. WHY MUST IT RAIN AT THIS TIME??? That's what i was thinking while walking over with my oh-so-pink umbrella. Like normal, kids will try to grab the umbrella and do some funny stuff with it so it's kinda hard to hold him on my left hand, hold the umbrella on the left, hang on to the baby bag and also another plastic bag containing preserved duck eggs both from the lorry nearby. Jayden loves plastic bag and umbrella..so can u imagine how havoc was it?
So reach home, called my maid.. "rini oi...bukak pintu, tekan butang di dinding". My so-clever maid..went and look for the button under the TV RACK, Under the couch, On The TV Rack...while saying "mana?? mana???" Dang! I adjust everything on my hands including Jayden and managed to take the keys out from my pocket and opened the door myself. At this point, both hands like total numb and tired. Jayden is only 8.3kgs and he is already so heavy edi..lucky me to have a skinny kid? I don't know. I went and asked Rini...Ini apa? (pointing at the wall). "TEMBOK!". WTF???? Wall is Tembok?? Anyway.. i learnt new Indon words from her again...hehehe

Like I've told some of you guys in MSN b4 i headed home, i felt like i'm abit sick. So i thought porridge might be a good idea since i have preserved duck egg and beancurd. So while i was doing my stuff outside..there's no noise from Jayden, which rarely happens...so i went inside the room and i saw him doing this..

My baby is standing by his own while playing with the monkey hung on the play pen. According to his nanny, nowadays he's standing using only one hand to hold on to the sides. Mr.Chan, you've missed another of his milestones..just like many many that you have missed. So as soon as he saw me taking his picture, he started crying asking me to carry. That's when the drama began...I bathed and fed him and hope that he can sleep well the whole night thru. Tak kisah lah how many times he wanna drink milk, just as long as dun cry, kick, arch his body when i carry him and so many other things.

I have moved everything to the floor, thinking that sleeping with him on the bed is abit risky. I tired to lalala him to sleep but nope....he wants to crawl, stand..this and that. And i can hear my tummy go *kriiiiiiiiiiiiiikruuuuuuuuuuuukriiiiiiiiiiiiiikruuuuuuuuuuuu* 8.00, 8.30, 9.00 passed he is still awake. I wanna faint edi...so beh tahan i just throw him into the play pen and ate my porridge. As usual, he won't let me eat peacefully. So, i had to hold him, swing him and lalala him like 20 mins, finally my lil worm fell asleep. Fast Fast i finished my porridge. Either its a damn good porridge or I'm just too hungry, but was so dissapointed cos there's NO BEANCURD in the BEANCURD BOTTLE!!! Only some phatetic sisa sisa beancurd.. so here's how my dinner looked like..

Obviously it's not a yummy porridge but its definitely I'm damn hungry!!! Fast Fast cin-cin-cai-cai finished it up and wanted to relax abit by watching the new chinese show in WLT...but thought since it's on MAX better I sleep. WHICH IS A DAMN GOOD DECISION...cos 2 hours after that, the nightmare begins...

Jayden woke up at 12.30 am and started fussing around. Crying and Crawling without opening his eyes. No choice, I gotto carry him and swaddle him until he fall asleep. You think it's so easy?? nahh...he won't make it easy for ya. As soon as you wanna put him down, he will cry again. And if you think you can sit down and carry him at the same time...naah..not so easy. HE JUST WANT YOU TO STAND UP!!! You say jialat or not???!!! And sometimes it works..sometimes he will arch his body and kick you hard!That's when I'm so triggered to smack him, which i did again.. :( So the whole night was like wrestling session with my son. His sleep will not last more than 20 mins...and as soon as i wanna fall asleep he's awake. *sigh*

However, i managed to snap one of his best sleeping position...He used his right leg to hold himself and balanced his body. By the way he's sleeping, you can really see he's an active and notty boy....

That's how my night was. I only managed to get 2 hours peaceful sleep..i woke up since 12.30 am. I just so tired and no energy to do anything. He started to be active by 6am and while i was on my way back from making milk for him...i saw this..

He picked up the bottle and drank the water himself. I guess using the munchkinz help abit to make him more independent. BUT, he refused to hold his milk bottle. Proly its too heavy..since its like 9oz/8oz compared to his small water bottle.

Sent him off to the nanny and he waved BYEBYE to me...a consolation prize for a zombie Mami like me..We'll see how tonight goes.. Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

19 comments:

  1. Pity mummy. I know how u feel now cos I experience this before cos my boy also like tat. I think maybe boy is like tat cos I notice my girl very easy to take care. Be patience ok ! Think of me when u feel tired (Hehehe!) :)

    ReplyDelete
  2. wei!same same here..me got two sick boys to take care too lei..also sleepless nite for me.*shake hand* Dont worry,when u're awake..think of annie - me also same like u..LOL..

    ReplyDelete
  3. Gurl also the same leh. We had two sleepless nites already. Two pairs of zombie eyes in the room now.

    ReplyDelete
  4. Desp Mum: Girls better huh? Hmm

    Annie: Wei at least u have maid lei..

    Julian: At least u have 2 pairs of panda eyes.. mine is only 1 pair le..

    ReplyDelete
  5. ya la..dunno why ALWAYS when the papa is away, they'd get sick...or reach some milestone... anyway, poor u..no sleep..don't know how you tahan. My No.1 always want me to sleep with him..No.2..i let him sleep by himself. or else sure pengz!!!!

    ReplyDelete
  6. *pat pat Jayden's head*...jayden kwai kwai..don't bully bully mummy...let mummy have good rest...want to bully...bully the daddy when he get back...muahaha...when Mr Chan come back...get "one day off"...go treat yourself a spa...facial...massage...just have one day all to yourself...to relax... ;)

    ReplyDelete
  7. take mc take leave watever also, go home and sleep.... later i go ask everyone sign a petition ask u to go home and rest while jayden in babysitter....

    kelian de sasha... really superwoman.... hope jayden gets well ler, hope he's so tired that he konk out as soon as his head and sleep the whole nite, or at least until middle of the nite.... and hope u dun get sick....

    ReplyDelete
  8. Yeah, as advised by Shannon, go take MC or whatever. You can't afford to be not well since Mr. Chan is in HK. Isn't there anyone else that can help you out? Your parents? His parents?

    ReplyDelete
  9. He's at the age of learning new stuff and refuses to sleep during the night. It will pass and poor you have to endure this alone for these few nights.

    ReplyDelete
  10. Maybe Jayden misses his Daddy. Dats why so 'low kai' - cranky. :P

    You deserved a good break Sasha.. hang on there till Sat. Hubby coming home...."KamBaTeh".

    ReplyDelete
  11. Jayden boy, be good tonight okay? Help mommy maintain her pretty and eyebag free sexy eyes. :)

    ReplyDelete
  12. Some how.. kids got sick sense one woh.. and they like to play tricks on mummy..

    when Daddy not around.. create havoc lar.. for mummy!

    Hope he'll be good boy tonight.

    ReplyDelete
  13. Congrats that Jayden learnt something new!

    Aiyo, really pity you, it isn't easy to take care a baby alone, sigh, really keep finger crossed to see Mr.Chan back.

    ReplyDelete
  14. Jayden bully mummy wan. When daddy around kwai kwai liddat! hahaha.

    ReplyDelete
  15. Welcome to my world, I forgot how to sleep thru already...

    ReplyDelete
  16. aiyah...my big Piggy is away too ah.. and this happens very often... I'm so used to waking up in the night and stare at the ceiling after my little piggy snooozed back.... did you feed Jayden until he 'pau-pau' or not?? With full tummy, he can sleep longer leh?

    ReplyDelete
  17. Hang in there zombie mommy :)

    ReplyDelete
  18. I almost forgot the 'taste' of good sleep! U r not alone Sasha. *sob**sob*

    ReplyDelete
  19. Oh u poor thing. I can relate to this cause Aiden last week, dunno why for 2 nites also liddis to us lor.. Every 1-2 hrs wake up and cry. Arch body and give "chut chut" oso dowan liao. He ended up sleeping on our bed using our quilt, and fell asleep for 3 hours....Must be the heavy quilt and he thought that someone still carrying him. har har....

    ReplyDelete